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I love this. And you’re right - we shouldn’t owe anyone anything. I believe that collectivism with the philosophies of altruism and appeasement have driven a lot of the problems we see today, including the masses response to covid. People have been made to feel that they must sacrifice themselves in order to have value.

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Thank you Hannah. The “be kind” people-pleasing culture disrespects the concept that we are already kind. We should not have to strive to “be” - to take instruction. Love is already present in us and just needs the right conditions to blossom. If we concentrate on getting the conditions right, flowers will always bloom.

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Love it. Not just the metaphor for personal growth, but the way it builds so deftly from melancholy reflection to a clarion call to bewitch and enchant.

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Thank you. I am grateful to you for sharing this ❤

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Is there a chance of pinging you a coffee , ☕

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Bless you. One day I will probably add that on here as an option, but for now, just know I appreciate feeling appreciated. It’s all I need right now. Xx

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Absolutely

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