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Hannah's avatar

I totally agree with your views about mental health virtue signallers online. And I especially love ‘honouring the cycle’ - I believe we go through cycles of seasons in our life, each cycle with an important lesson for us to learn to bring us closer to our truth/soul/something else...

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Julie Dee's avatar

It's a healthy way to view it. Resistance is futile so just observe yourself and by doing that i believe the growing awareness assists us in finding our way forward.

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Hannah's avatar

🙏❤️

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Christian Thompson's avatar

This manages to be wise, funny, heartbreaking and life affirming all at once. It’s the essence of resilience, albeit a a soft, yielding resilience (the best kind, like a willow) rather than the steely, brittle kind that is prone to eventually shatter and ultimately make more of mess of everything around it. I wish this piece could be used in teaching practice for mental health nursing to illustrate the concept of resilience , but it’s just too damn honest.

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Julie Dee's avatar

The good thing (and bad thing) about getting older is you’ve been to most places (mentally) before, recognise the terrain, the approaching ‘weather’. But you also know all feelings are transient or certainly in their strongest colours. The image of the sweat lodge tent was key on this one for me. It pins down that notion of sitting it out til the new dawn.

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Blackswan's avatar

🙏🏾

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St Lady Feck's avatar

Gee I could eat dat trifle!!! I play piano + sing a lot daily to expel gloom spiders + a quick brisk walk helps or a cold shower lols! I aim to have projects which are just a little bigger than my belief so I can grow thru them + feel they are more important to me than my external reality, eg writing a book or creating a piece of music ..

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Julie Dee's avatar

Sounds like good advice.:)

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Sep 13, 2022
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Julie Dee's avatar

I am sure sometimes I must be undiagnosed biopolar as I can swing so crazily from high to low. So many of us with similar experiences.

Yes talking isn’t for everyone. Taking some sort of action helps me - the gym, cleaning, cooking and remembering not to listen to songs that set me off!x

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Sep 7, 2022
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Julie Dee's avatar

I hear you ❤️

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Sep 1, 2022
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Julie Dee's avatar

They did, because today….IT’S AUTUMN!!!!🍂🔥😍❤️

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Aug 29, 2022
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Julie Dee's avatar

That’s right. All things must pass and all that. Xx

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Aug 29, 2022
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Julie Dee's avatar

Yes, if course you can. Not like I can is it?

I wondered reading it back if it sounded too arsey but hopefully depressed people can still see the humour in their situation.

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