Sometimes it’s as though life runs in tandem. Two strands of your being compete like runners on a track. Inner and outer. You’re keeping it together externally - ‘coping’ yet cracking on the inside.
Maybe it’s a fantasy life that has to coexist with your real one, the one you’re actually living right now.
Maybe you’re deliberately compartmentalising two aspects of your being.
At what point do they merge, does one become the other?
I see this duality as ‘The Chariot’ tarot card. One master struggling (or succeeding) to control two horses that so often pull us in different directions.
And sometimes we think we know the outcome, which force will come out on top, the dominant one.
But just like the athletes that sneak up from nowhere on race tracks to win a race, sometimes events and emotions can take us by surprise. Overtake.
It’s been that sort of couple of weeks really.
Managing the chariot. Steering.
Realising that she who gets the horses to work together, has the smoothest ride.
And it’s not always easy to do, is it? To get that plodding, dependable (yet dull) shire horse inside you to make friends with the one that thinks it’s a bloody unicorn.
But I do like to encourage them to eat at the same trough. Feed them my ideas like apples, my heart as wild oats, pet them and say “look, I love you both”.
And sometimes I braid their manes and tails together. And when I manage to do that, they’re so fine. Enriched by the traits of the other. The strong fibre of the shire horse alive and twinkly for the fairy dust of the flighty one.
These poems reflect this theme.
When is teamwork compromise?
When is dreamwork realised?
I will go through them at the end.
Photos are all my own.
Man of my heart
He plays, silent film
In my cellophane world
Glazing me clearly
Despite him not there
A Saturday moonset
Wild strawberry sweet
From hill top of solace
To edge of my seat
A copse lapping water
In time lapse of lips
Bells pealing on Sunday
The launching of ships
Infusing my musing
Whilst bruising scarred land
A man of my heart
I can’t touch with my hand
White statue in the dark
Come back when clocks resist half time
So silent feelings ring
When home truths leave you destitute
And prayer an ailing wing
Return when violet wounds are beige
And plunging thoughts desist
When peace pipes smudge your burning dove
Replacing reddening mist
Old rafters brought your mind to roost
As grain of you decayed
The jackdaws riddled twilight
With their rattle dose of day
Blame is a bloom, it blossoms
Feeds on empty, soon grows fat
Regrets, they visit often
Cause they see the welcome mat
I cannot move, immobilised
Amusement for your park
Cemented to a view of us
White statue in the dark
Water’s daughter
I ditched the chill so staid and still
For switch of summer rain
Pitches of my fever killed
Night’s daydreams born in pain
And estuaries of salt, they harbour
Swims I can’t forget
Fallacies and fault to garner
Starboards never met
I am the water’s daughter
I besiege rogue shrieks of fire
Submerging last surviving hearts
To call out flame, a liar
Sometimes, I feel vulnerable
Sometimes, I feel vulnerable
My inner child laid bare
The monsters, large and tangible
Me, overwhelmed and scared
I wobble like a milk tooth
I hover as a fly
I quiver like a field of wheat
When harvesters go by
But vulnerable is preferable
To feeling void and numb
I love myself a little more
Embrace the tears that come
Louise
I loved you in my company
I loved you from a screen
The essence of you, radiant
My strong, enduring queen
Warm brown eyes, so calm and sure
Such energy of light
The faith you had in better days
Despite your darkest night
Some women live in monochrome
Stagnate and people-please
But you were born to blaze a trail
My beautiful Louise
Meanings/insights
Man of my heart
This is about those we feel affinity with, yet aren’t for whatever reason, with us in our reality. They can appear so vividly, yet it is an inner world. Do we glorify, eulogise them? Give them qualities we wouldn’t do if they were with us? Do we turn them into solutions? I played on cellophane/film because it reflects that duality. We see our ‘film’ of them through a ‘film’.
White statue in the dark
This is about feeling like an onlooker. Sometimes people have so much going on, that all you can do is be there in their ‘park’, their drama. You are a statue, frozen, observing. And after a while, you harden like a statue too. But remember you are ‘white’ in the dark, light, a lantern, a star. The ‘dark’ being their own mental landscape.
Water’s daughter
This one is about the emotional component of you (or someone/something else) trying to drown your flame. It seduces you, water - warm summer rain. I played on ‘switch’ to denote change but also had ‘switch’ in mind as its old fashioned ‘whip’ meaning too. Emotional flogging. The way you can end up hurt by something that once felt gentle and good.
Sometimes I feel vulnerable
This is the most direct of the poems. I looked out and saw the field across the road. Cut down. I considered of all who made their homes in it - dormice, rabbits……suddenly exposed and felt their panic. Felt that feeling rise in me. Embraced it.
Louise
I went to her funeral this week. Louise was both inner and outer world to me. The most dazzling collision of both. I knew her in real life but she also inspired me when she was posting from her travelling adventures; ‘on a screen’. She lit both my dreams and my reality. Even when dying of cancer at just 44 years old, she was a shining light, such a inspiration to all who knew her. I go forward carrying the blessings of having known her wonderful spirit. As someone at her funeral said;
“she once had a business called Live As You Dream and for me, that encapsulates her, she really did live as she dreamed - big.”
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I love these poems 💜
Thank you. Today is a one year anniversary of something bad that happened to me, that made me feel very vulnerable. Your poems always make me feel less so, I think because there is so often that feeling you convey of connection to something bigger than ourselves. As much as that feeling can make us feel small, it also reminds us that we are not alone.