Don’t know about you, but I was always the kid who wanted to take home every mangy mutt or mewing kitten. The girl who endeavoured to save tadpoles, rescue worms and rehome spiders.
The message length on Social Media only provided a titbit of your capabilities. This blog has the potential to release the full "Julie Experience" to the world. If the world is ready :-)
This truly resonated with me Julie. Another beautifully written observation ❤️👏🏼
I never recall trying to help animals but became acutely aware through therapy later in life that I have an awful codependency problem...the need to try and fix and solve other people’s problems which is ultimately a desperate attempt to be validated, approved and feel loved yourself.
I’m much more self aware of it now and not the people-pleaser I used to be. You cannot help anyone that doesn’t want to help themselves for a start. It’s you yourself that needs the self-love, time, energy and help so often. In my case, helping others has often been a needed distraction from my own pain and unhappiness. x
I’m glad it chimed with you. I really believe that putting yourself first is massively underrated and at some point will write something on that topic too.
Keep loving yourself Nat because your light will bathe others x
The message length on Social Media only provided a titbit of your capabilities. This blog has the potential to release the full "Julie Experience" to the world. If the world is ready :-)
Whatever that means😂😂😂
This truly resonated with me Julie. Another beautifully written observation ❤️👏🏼
I never recall trying to help animals but became acutely aware through therapy later in life that I have an awful codependency problem...the need to try and fix and solve other people’s problems which is ultimately a desperate attempt to be validated, approved and feel loved yourself.
I’m much more self aware of it now and not the people-pleaser I used to be. You cannot help anyone that doesn’t want to help themselves for a start. It’s you yourself that needs the self-love, time, energy and help so often. In my case, helping others has often been a needed distraction from my own pain and unhappiness. x
I’m glad it chimed with you. I really believe that putting yourself first is massively underrated and at some point will write something on that topic too.
Keep loving yourself Nat because your light will bathe others x
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That’s so funny and typical of ‘givers’ I’m so pleased you’ve got a platform to share your imagination x
Thanks. I have already written another political piece but don’t want to bore people by talking about the same sort of stuff all the time. 😂
Glad you could relate to this. I appreciate your comment and encouragement.
Cheers Suz.
I think it’s easier for some people than addressing their own issues.