Moods really do swing, don’t they?
Or they do for me.
Maybe it’s my age - although all my adult life I feel I’ve been blaming hormones like a bitch.
At the moment, I find myself saying “it’s the peri-menopause”, before that it was PMS, pregnancy, the pill…. Why do women do that? Explain away feelings in some way - like you can’t just feel something and it be valid in its own right!
Even now I find myself doing it with the bastard moon!
Can I not give myself permission to experience emotion without it being part of some phase or other? If we are indeed comprised mainly of water, it’s only right we sway, glide and crash inside.
Is it comfort or excuse that a feeling can be the fault of something out of our control?
Sometimes, in a day I can go from hoping for death (Midnight Kiss) to euphoria - wanting to hug everyone (I love what you bring to my table). My heart digs her own grave, lays still for a while, only to exhume herself and shimmy around the cemetery proclaiming she’s not dead.
Sometimes people hurl earth on, other times they stretch out their arms to dance then hoop me around in scoops of peach melba dusk.
Or do they?
The thing is, the world remains the same, it’s only our perception that changes. This simple truth helps me when I’m low.
I hand myself *the bus* card - “don’t worry there’ll be another one along soon!”
And it’s true.
Keep waiting at the ‘mood bus stop’. Another one WILL turn up……. eventually!
Of course, we can try and help this along too by doing things we respond positively to - eating well, exercising, blah de blah blah……
I wrote these in the last week or so. A couple I’ve put out on social media earlier in the week, the others I haven’t.
Dog
Today I found myself a dog
Lying low outside a shop
Tied with greying, fraying string
Eyes, a copper yelp of hope
The string was weak and he looked strong
Could easily rise and break away
But chose to lie there on the floor
As passers by took on their day
They patted hunks of matted gold
Wincing at the chance of rain
Did their errands, went to work
On their way home, saw him again
Night will stroke him like a ghoul
Wind slicing through his precious fur
He’ll reminisce like some old fool
Of when his special person cared
And some will get it, some will not
Some will think “why don’t you run?
Take your chance on better days!”
Perhaps, they never loved someone
Daybreak Cake
The sun cracked daybreak like an egg
Into blue bowl of sky
Baking cakes of butterscotch
To serve to those on high
The tawny birds of coffee lace
Are grateful for the crumb
They skim and sail and chase their tail
Waiting for Spring to come
Midnight Kiss
Tonight, I want to take a bus
Past pecking towns of waste and sin
Eat salty chips on the top deck
Balm bored lips with taste again
Inhale a blast of teenage smoke
Pound sting into my jaded eyes
Invest in someone else’s joke
Hear conversations that aren’t mine
I’ll get off at an inky lake
Tread, wobbly foal into abyss
Some jagged star will spear the way
Join seamlessly, the midnight kiss
Weekends
.
You stumble in my room of calm
Clumsy jolt of stale stench
The beaten drum rolls into bed
A baste of numbing, toxic bleach
Tomorrow you’ll be bleak, forlorn
I’ll glare at you with ice contempt
And why….. because I am no saint
Two messed up souls who split the rent
I love what you bring to my table
.
The stories, smiles spilled on my page
That turn my soul from brittle beige
To moths that fly to strawberry moon
Court golden light and find the tune
Of buzzing wings and leaping hearts
Pieces of Spring that reach for north
The fiery red, the green and new
The sweep of stars, the silver dew
Mirrors to see my best reflection
Night to give my day direction
I grow from all your mundane chatter
Never think that you don’t matter
.
Nice! Gorgeous pix
I blame mood swings on the encroaching NWO, being an orphan, low income, bills to pay, the weather - there, a good cross section! Never thought of my body, I think I have it well under control